You met, fell in love and you finally decided to get married.
Let's suppose you accept — Hey! You can always say no!
;) — and you plan to get married. What to do now?
Everything you ever wanted to know about weddings!
Your wedding staff will include a Wedding Negotiator, who
is your primary contact about your wedding. They will answer
your questions, review your items, coordinate the rest of
your Wedding Team, and if needed, check in from time to time
to make sure everything is moving along smoothly. They are
generally assigned upon receipt of your list.
Once your list has been received, your Wedding Negotiator
will be in touch with you about any suggestions or comments
regarding your items. They will also be able to answer questions
you might have about your wedding and your assigned wedding
Your Wedding Builder and Wedding QC person work hand-in-hand
to guarantee that your wedding items are made correctly and
meet our alteration guidelines. You will probably not have
any contact with them. If they have questions about your items,
they will work with your Wedding Negotiator, who will consult
you should any issues arise. NOTE: QC will ALWAYS have the
last say about your items and if any changes need to be made
so that they fit into our guidelines. This entire process
can take as long as 8 weeks to complete, which is why we sell
tickets two months in advance.
Your Wedding Coordinator (assigned when you pick a date) works
with you to create your special effects messaging, based on
your own suggestions and ideas. They meet with you prior to
the wedding to discuss the logistics of your wedding ceremony
-- the order in which the wedding party enters the celebration
area, where and when to meet to get changed, and help deliver
some last minute invitations.
Wedding List Items
The first thing you need to do is send your list of items
to firstname.lastname@example.org. When you mail the items list,
remember to put the name of the bride and groom on the subject
line. (It is easier to look for "Uglydwarf's and Prettyelf's"
wedding items, than to have to sort through a bunch of "Wedding
Items" letters). Please don't send attached files --
sometimes we can't read them.
For your items, you are allows 18 items of your choice, 2
wedding rings, and 2 ring boxes, for a total of 22 items.
Please check the ALTER verb in game for up-to-date
information on alteration guidelines. Keep in mind, we will
pocket things that are normally pocketed (cloaks, satchels,
pouches) AND you can also get two other items pocketed that
do not normally have pockets (trousers, boots, bodices, etc).
Please be sure to look over the guidelines provided on the
Simutronics web site Wedding page, as well as the in-game
verb ALTER, and feel free to ask your Negotiator
for clarification of any questions you might have. You might
also wish to view PREMIUM 4 and 8 when in the game
for additional hints about how item alteration works.
We DO follow the alteration guidelines, so just because a
merchant may have created a particular item is in no way a
guarantee that we will do so. If we
consider the item OOG or inappropriate/not wedding-related,
we reserve the right to change or refuse a request on any
item. Purchase of a wedding ticket should in no way be interpreted
as a chance to get items that violate the guidelines, or repeat
the past mistakes of a merchant.
These items should be designed to make your wedding event
special. We will work to craft the items as close as we can
to your specifications, but
understand that these items are intended to enrich your wedding,
and are not specifically intended to be part of your every
day wear, although certainly you can design them as such.
We will not make OOC/OOG items. Nor will we use very rare
materials and non-existent materials -- like shadowsilk, moonlight,
stardust, etc. Rare metals will need to be supplied in appropriate
Setting a Date
You cannot choose a wedding date until your item list has
been fully negotiated and has been sent off to the builder.
The reason for this is to avoid not having your items ready
when your wedding date rolls around! Once you and your Negotiator
are done with your list, the Negotiator will "release"
your wedding and explain to you how to choose a date! Once
you have chosen a date, you will be contacted by your Wedding
Coordinator, usually a GameHost, who will help you make your
ceremony as special as possible!
Wedding Mood Messaging
Mood messaging can really add that extra flare to your wedding
and make it even more special. You and your wedding coordinator
will work together to create appropriate mood messaging that
can enhance your ceremony. The ceremony is yours to plan,
we just add little highlights to make it more unique than
if you were to do the wedding yourself, using the SMILE
and ACT verbs. You are certainly free to work with
your friends however, to create something a little more involved,
if you wish, and the Wedding Coordinator will work with your
Your Wedding Day: What to Expect
Your Wedding Coordinator will plan on meeting you and the
rest of your party about 60 minutes or so before your wedding.
That will give you lots of time to get ready. Make sure you
have invitations for yourself, your future spouse, and all
of your wedding party, as you will need them to get into the
wedding tent at the Wedding Glade. Bring any extras you might
have, someone always drops or forgets theirs. Keep one or
two spares handy, since you can "wave" your invitation
at a disruptive person in attendance at your wedding, and
they will be removed.
Come as "naked" as possible, since you will be brought
to a dressing area to don your wedding clothes. Bring along
an empty backpack or other container to carry any wedding
gifts you might receive from your friends, as well.
After the ceremony, and before the reception really gets started,
your Wedding Coordinator will be taking you back to the dressing
rooms to pick up anything you have left up there. That way
you won't be constrained by their schedule and can enjoy your
reception as long as you like, though there is a 4 hour limit.
When in the dressing rooms, type FLAG MARRIED to
access your new verbs as a married couple. We could tell you
what they all are but trust me in this... it is more fun to
discover them yourselves.
The Wedding Coordinator will let you know which Honeymoon
Cottage you are scheduled to use in the resort area. You can
access that area by entering the Moss Covered Gate next to
the wedding tent you entered to get to your wedding... you
can't miss it! The doors to your cottage are keyed to the
two of you, so you can both lock and unlock the door. You
will have this cottage for 4 nights and 5 days, including
your wedding day.
Engraving Your Rings
You will both be able to inscribe your spouse's wedding ring,
this is how to do it.
Swap rings in a quiet location... I recommend the honeymoon
cottage myself. You should already have the other's ring when
you are in your waiting room before the wedding, if you wish
to do it then. Then type:
ENGRAVE MY RING (or BAND)
Next you will have to RECITE what you want to inscribe.
Be careful about capitalization and punctuation, check it
over carefully before you recite. Keep it short, remember
it is an inscription inside a tiny ring! Then you will have
to type ENGRAVE MY RING again. You can now swap rings
back, (or give it to your spouse during your ceremony) so
that each of you has your own ring again. At that point you
will have to wait for the Wedding Guru or your Negotiator
to approve your new inscriptions, which should happen very
quickly... usually a couple of days. If there is a problem
with your inscription, we will get back to you on it.